The other day I was getting ready for a strategy session with a guy who was interested in our Empowered Man VIP Private Coaching program.
Prior to getting on EVERY SINGLE call I have a routine.
- I get into a quiet place. Make sure there’s as little noise as possible to distract me.
- I do some breathing exercises.
- I look at the guys application.
- I visualize him and what he has been experiencing the pain his wife has caused him.
- And I lock in for the call.
I show up…every day for my guys.
Because every day, I am honored with the opportunity to hear other men’s stories. Stories, they don’t have to share with a soul, but they choose to. They reach out because they are hurting in a ton of pain.
I know that I cannot help every one of them.
I know that we can’t solve every single problem.
But, I also know that we are called to impact thousands, if not millions of men, who are struggling with this pain of losing the woman that they love.
What I often find odd though, is how so many men will book a call with us, fill out an application and either:
A. Miss the call completely.
B. Not bother to really show up emotionally for the call.
I call this the “fix-me” attitude.
They see the opportunity to talk to someone. But, instead of taking it upon themselves to get ready for the call, they expect me to just wave my little magic wand and make everything go back to normal.
Guys, it don’t work like that.
Because…
How you show up…says everything about you and your priorities.
Heck, I know guys, who when its NFL season (hopefully we’ll see modern day football sometime this year, rather than watching all the highlights from the past), will spend hours getting dressed in their favorite teams outfits, wearing makeup, and sitting outside a stadium 3 hours before it starts.
They know how to show up for a football game…but they can’t SHOW UP for their wives or their children???!!!!
Imma be real here.
Most men don’t give a F*ck about showing up for their wives because emotionally they are like children.
If you watch most men communicate with their wives, its almost like they are talking to their mother.
They feel like shes scolding them. They feel like shes holding them by the balls.
And that’s because she is! She owns you right now!
You’ve given away your power so you act like a 2 year old sometimes.
And now that she’s left you, says she doesn’t love you, cheating on you…
Instead of owning up to YOUR side of the equation, you dodge bullets. Some guys head for the hills and others grovel at her feet.
But, some guys own up to their side.
These are the REAL MEN.
They begin to look at what they can do to become a better man an EMPOWERED MAN.
They realize that regardless of what she does, they can WORK on themselves.
Too many guys have an opportunity that is standing right in front of them…but all they can see is their pain, their tears, and their fears.
Stop making this about YOU. And start making this about how YOU can become the best Empowered Man you can be.
Something I learned while going through all the pain of infidelity is…
Don’t waste your pain.
I can’t stress this enough. While it does NOT feel like a blessing, it really is. Its a huge opportunity for you to learn how to SHOW UP.
But, you’ve gotta decide if you want it.
You’ve gotta decide if you’re willing to get your hands dirty.
You’ve gotta decide if you’re willing to face the truth about who you’ve been so that you can finally become who you were meant to be!
My team and I can go with you on this journey, but ultimately, you have to do the work.
Our most successful clients are the ones who realize they have to SHOW UP and they have to do the work!
Look….if you’re ready to do the work, then lets talk.
If not, you can hang out for awhile. But, I can GUAR-ON-TEE you that you will NOT survive this environment if you are NOT willing to do the work.
Because I’m gonna call you out.
Every day, guys are telling me how their wives have been saying the SAME THING I am…
Crazy, huh?!
The first step to DOING the work…is SHOWING UP!
Whose gonna show up today? How are you gonna show up?
Let’s go!
Mark
The Empowered Man
PS – If you’re ready to SHOW UP and do the work, we should chat. Schedule a time with my team, fill out the app, and we’ll show you what the work looks like and whether we think you are ready to go on that journey.
Book a time here to start showing up for your wife —> Https://go.oncehub.com/empoweredman