Owning Your Sh*t

If you think the simple “I’m sorry, I messed up” is enough for an apology, you need to listen to this episode. Spoiler alert: It’s not. In this new episode of Empowered AF, Mark lays out the fundamentals of owning your mistakes and becoming a truly Empowered Man. He covers the nature of trust, the power of empathy, and the beauty of fostering a space where you and your partner can be fully vulnerable. You may look strong on the outside, but true strength comes from within and what you bring out in your partner.

“The only way to have a forward-moving relationship with this person is for them to feel heard and understood in our messing up.”

– Mark Santiago

In This Episode:

– How to take responsibility beyond a confession

– What you NEED to know about trust

– The importance of building an unshakeable emotional connection

– A primary principle of the Empowered Man

– Make THESE small changes to express your needs and feel satisfied

– How to create a sanctuary for your and your partner’s feelings

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Take the Empowered Man 30 Day Challenge:

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Breaking the Cycle

Setting a boundary is about more than “Me Time”. When you set a boundary, you’re telling yourself and the world that your happiness is valuable. Whether you’re single or married, this principle is crucial to embracing your manhood. In this new episode, Mark discusses the key steps to establishing healthy boundaries, no matter where you are in life. He details the importance of consistency, how to be strong even when you feel the opposite, and the critical steps for detaching yourself from your old expectations and beginning your new life. 

“Part of making empowered decisions is actually setting healthy boundaries.”

– Mark Santiago

In This Episode:

– The three boundaries you MUST set to be healthy, whether you’re single or married

– How to avoid false-positives and break the cycle

– Why consistency is the key

– The importance of establishing yourself as strong, even if you don’t feel that way

Join the Thrive Program:

-Website: https://training.empoweredman.co/application/

Take the Empowered Man 30 Day Challenge:

Website: https://www.empoweredman.co/challenge?el=podcast

Connect with Mark Santiago:

Get In The Free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/empoweredbusinessmen

– Website: https://empoweredman.co/

– Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mark.santiago.35977

– Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markwsantiago/

– LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mark-santiago-854a68a/

Resist Manipulation and Own Your Manhood

Manipulation usually operates on the subconscious, meaning that most people aren’t actively trying to control others. However, that doesn’t mean that it isn’t powerful, and when you pair that with something as emotionally charged as a damaged marriage, people can easily feel exploited. In this new episode, Mark helps us better understand manipulation by summarizing it in a super digestible way, as well as showing us small tweaks that will help you enforce your boundaries. Ultimately, if you own your mistakes and embrace your value as a man, guilt can’t touch you.

“Manipulation is trying to get your healthy needs met in an unhealthy way.”

– Mark Santiago

In This Episode:

– The three key ways your wife can manipulate you

– THE easiest way to understand manipulation across the board

– How to avoid the destructive “blaming and shaming” game

– The power of seeing your wife as a “neutral woman”

– Why you NEED to get an “ROI on your tears”

Join the Thrive Program:

-Website: https://training.empoweredman.co/application/

Take the Empowered Man 30 Day Challenge:

Website: https://www.empoweredman.co/challenge?el=podcast

Connect with Mark Santiago:

– Website: https://empoweredman.co/

– Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/empoweredbusinessmen

– Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mark.santiago.35977

– Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeJl84ujGFT-ZrhOWwtNwsw

– Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markwsantiago/

– LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mark-santiago-854a68a/

Don’t Let the Affair Define You

We all wish affairs were only nightmares, but they’re unfortunately all too real. So, if that nightmare becomes real for you, how do you transform that pain into a positive? In this new episode of Empowered AF, Mark makes the case for how emotional cheating is an underestimated beast, the feelings that can trap you in a cycle of self-sabotage, and THIS mindset shift that will decide if you emerge empowered or destroyed. Which do you choose?

“What you have to do is put yourself in the most powerful position to receive her back, should she decide to come back.”

– Mark Santiago

In This Episode:

– The key differences between physical and emotional affairs

– How to navigate “limerence” and “affair fog”

– Why so many victims end up manipulating the cheater

– The danger of “false positives”

– How you can sink into the pain of an affair and emerge as an unshakeable new man

Join the Thrive Program:

-Website: https://training.empoweredman.co/application/

Take the Empowered Man 30 Day Challenge:

Website: https://www.empoweredman.co/challenge?el=podcast

Connect with Mark Santiago:

– Website: https://empoweredman.co/

– Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/empoweredbusinessmen

– Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mark.santiago.35977

– Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeJl84ujGFT-ZrhOWwtNwsw

– Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markwsantiago/

– LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mark-santiago-854a68a/

You Come First

If trauma strikes, how will you react? Fall apart or pick up the pieces? Trauma affects everyone, but your response to it makes ALL the difference. Welcome to Empowered AF, a podcast that helps guide men through divorce and rediscover their power. In this episode, host Mark Santiago emphasizes the importance of having a vision, one exercise to help you endure the pain more productively, and how to find and embrace your new self that your children will admire.

“The only way to move forward is to have a vision of what you want your future to look like.”

 – Mark Santiago

In This Episode:

– Why you should have a firm grasp on the next 30-90 days

– THIS simple exercise will help guide you through the trauma

– What your children look for in a father, especially during divorce

– How to build your own identity, with or without your wife

Join the Thrive Program:

-Website: https://training.empoweredman.co/application/

Take the Empowered Man 30 Day Challenge:

Website: https://www.empoweredman.co/challenge?el=podcast

Connect with Mark Santiago:

Book a session with Mark here: https://empoweredman.co/book?fbclid=IwAR3uUSdxiiR7gnPYWjWJ4iuWen_T_TbRrDx96s8Z9VWkeQJl9tQZKzi6BBU

– Website: https://empoweredman.co/

– Facebook Group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/empoweredbusinessmen

– Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mark.santiago.35977

– Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeJl84ujGFT-ZrhOWwtNwsw

– Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markwsantiago/

– LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mark-santiago-854a68a/

Welcome to Empowered AF

An Empowered man is one who communicates like a leader, sets boundaries that gets respect, knows who he is and what he wants…and owns his own sh*t.  

The Empowered AF podcast is designed to help men do just that in their marriage and life. Join entrepreneur, coach and father Mark Santiago every week as he shares the secrets to stepping into your own empowerment as a man. 

Each week you’ll hear about taboo issues that hold back the modern day man from knowing who he is, what he wants and how to become the man he wants to be as a father, husband and leader.