Your Journey – The Empowered Man

_{Here’s where I meet most guys.

They just found out their wife doesn’t love them anymore, she’s cheating, wants to move out, or has already moved out.

The journey you are on doesn’t just go away. You’re on it now. I decided to lay out the JOURNEY that you are on. Sometimes there’s nothing more comforting than knowing that other people UNDERSTAND you and the journey you are on:

Part 1 – Shock.

You’ve just found out and this is usually what you feel…}

_{I’m hurting and I don’t know what to do}
_{Its her fault.}
_{I don’t need help}
_{I just need to vent.}
_{She doesn’t see my changes}
_{I don’t know if i can save my marriage}
_{My marriage might be over.}
_{I need to start focusing on me.}
_{Maybe if I fix my issues, she’ll see that and come back to me.}
_{I need to stop worrying about her.}
_{I’m going to focus on me now. I don’t know what to focus on, but that’s what I’m going to do.}
_{I’m exercising, reading books, blogs, buying courses, going to therapy.}

_{As you can see in Part 1 of your Journey its very much about her and how she has hurt you. You’re struggling very deeply because it opens up wounds from the past.

But, what you do now makes all the difference. Will you stay in Phase 1 for days, weeks, months, or years?

Some guys never leave Phase 1 of the journey. Are you that guy?

Phase 2 – Discovery

In this phase, you’ve moved past the initial shock, disappointment, and hurt. And now you’re getting down to business and working on yourself…for real.

This is where guys start reaching out for help.

If you are in this Phase I highly recommend you booking a call with our team so that A) you don’t stay stuck in Phase 2 and B) so you do Phase 3 correctly.}

_{Its time I get focused. Its time to Up-level with people who have actually experienced what I’ve experience and can go on this journey with me more than a counselor/therapist or even my own friends.}

_{I need to fix how I communicate, set boundaries, and own my shit. I need to figure out what I want and who I want to be. I got lost in my marriage and its time I remember who I am again.}

_{If you’re in Phase 2 I challenge you to reach out to one of our advisors and put you on the path towards Phase 3.

Phase 3 – Empowered

Once you’ve begun Upleveling, this is the next phase of your journey. By leaning into the process and choosing to become Empowered, this is what you can expect to happen.

You are start to realize…}

_{I am just as much at fault for the destruction of my marriage. I’ve separated the fact that what she has done isn’t my fault, but I take responsibility for what is mine.}

_{I’ve got my Kingdom back! I feel powerful once again.}

_{I’m communicating like a leader. I’m direct and listen empathetically when necessary. I focus on using power statements, setting the narrative, and expressing my Big Boy needs.}

_{I have strong boundaries that fortify my heart from unnecessary pain. I enforce with consequences. I’ve separated my wife from the neutral woman who is now my co-parent.}

_{I’ve apologized to my wife for the part I played in the destruction in our marriage. I am honoring my commitments. I am showing up every day in a healthy way and I’m responsible for my own needs and desires.}

_{I’ve created a new plan of action based on my own values, not that of anyone else. I am clear and confident in what I want in a woman to meet my needs. I am also clear in the type of woman I want to be with for the rest of my life and I made a decision as to whether that is my current wife or not.}

_{I have processed the pain of the failures in our marriage and have opened my eyes to the pain I allowed for myself. My confidence is back and I no longer feel sorry for myself, but take ownership of the pain I both caused and allowed.}

_{I have grieved the death of my former wife and marriage.}

_{I am trying new things and reestablishing childhood dreams that make me come alive again. I have a bucket list that I am working on and have designed a new life for me with my wife if she chooses to join me on this adventure.}

_{If you’re in Phase 2, you should highly consider getting on a call with one of our advisors. We’ll lay out the plan that you need to move to Phase 3 of your journey and get unstuck.

You ready?

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Thanks,

Mark

The Empowered Man

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