Both in my personal experience in being married as well as the experience of tons of men I have worked with over the years, there is something we all have in common.
When guys talk about their wife leaving them, cheating on them, or saying they want a divorce…
Most of the time, not all, but most of the time…
They were CLUELESS it was happening.
So, when it happens you feel like you’ve been hit across the face with a 2×4.
Its all of a sudden, out of the blue.
Many of you are hurting. You are in situations that are pretty bad if you’re on this email list.
So, while you’re in quarantine, if your wife is got one foot out the door, cheating on you, or has said she doesn’t love you anymore, I got something for you.
I’m going to give you the top 3 things you need to be thinking about to maintain sanity as well as get your power back while in QUARANTINE!
Thinking thing #1 – Don’t worry about tomorrow, tomorrow will take care of itself.
The first time my wife told me she wanted out of the marriage all I could think of was being alone, not seeing my kids every day. My mind wandered out to the future that I had NO control over.
Don’t do that. Don’t waste your time thinking about a future, crying over a future, that you have zero control over.
Instead focus on TODAY. Focus on what you can control today. And that doesn’t mean your wife.
Thinking Thing #2 – Give her SPACE!
If your wife is seriously considering divorce, moving out, cheating, or whatever, the last thing she needs is you all up in her face!
Instead you need to give her space. Let her make her decision. I don’t mean you can’t protest her decision, but you must not continuously bug her and keep talking about “getting back together” if that;s what you want.
Thinking Thing #3 – Focus on the BIG PICTURE
Some guys get really focused on all the little things that she does or doesn’t do. Don’t do this. Please don’t do this. You will have your head spinning in circles wondering if she wants to stay or go.
Some guys do this to keep the hope alive. So, they get obsessed with every little thing she does or doesn’t do that APPEARS like she is coming back to the marriage.
This.will.drive.you.insane!!! Stop it!!
You cannot control her or what she does. So, as best as you can, stop focusing on what she is doing that looks like she is coming back to the marriage.
Most wives don’t just come back to the marriage and then everything goes back to normal.
It doesn’t work like that. They usually struggle, go back and forth in their mind. And thats because for a woman to leave a marriage it takes a lot of emotional turmoil. They don’t just up and leave. They plan it, think about it, and then make their decision.
So, while you’re stuck in your head right now, thinking about all of this stuff, remember that there are guys out there who are ready to help you get back on track with your marriage.
We have a program for guys like you who are married to a woman who is cheating, said they don’t love you anymore, or who has already left you/asked for a divorce.
If that’s you, I want to encourage you to NOT waste this time you have. Lets work together to help you build a proper foundation and become a man that your wife would want to come back to.
I don’t know what the future holds, but I do know that no matter what, you are responsible for you. When the chips are down, I would much rather my guys, my brothers, be able to say they gave it their all.
So, if you’re ready to get back on track, I want to invite you to a special phone call with myself or Andrew to chat with you about your specific situation and whether we can help you get your marriage back on track.
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Thanks,
Mark Santiago
The Empowered Man
PS – We don’t have time for excuse-makers. If you book a time, please make sure you show up and are ready to get the breakthrough you need on the call to go to the next level.
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